Dating Rules Book

If you're looking a dating rules book that will teach you when exactly to "flirt" with a woman, you will find more than one resource claiming to have that secret that all men want to learn about. If you've purchased more than one of these books, here's a secret you may want to know : your success will only depend on how you apply the theories you've learned.

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For example, you've learned a lot from the book Flirt Mastery and you're now ready to take a night club full of gorgeous women by storm. Here are some more tips on how you can apply the flirting advice you've learned, and how you can maximize each and every interaction with a woman.

Three steps to applying all the flirting lessons you acquired :

1. Be completely OK with flirting.

This statement might seem funny on paper, but hear me out. Have you seen men fumble their lines and trip all over while trying to flirt with women? These guys are not completely comfortable with the concept of flirting. Before you can successfully make women give you their numbers, you have to be completely relaxed. Don't worry about forgetting the pick up lines you labored to memorize the whole week. Your real flirting personality must develop naturally by consistent and frequent practice.

2. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

Flirting is a mating ritual that humans go through before they can really get involved. Verbalizing your feelings is one way of letting women know how you feel. The key to a good conversation is to act genuine and true to yourself. If you're dishing out a compliment, you must mean it, or it will come off as forced or fake.

3. Send out the appropriate body language cues.

Part of your over-all believability depends on how you show the nonverbal signals that ultimately brand your words as true. A man cannot say he's confident to a woman if his hands are shaking or if he's fidgeting.

These three simple steps make up the fundamentals of flirting. You can study all the advanced courses all you want but it all starts with these basic steps.